God Comforts People In Death: Hosea 2:21, 1 Corinthians 7:39, 2 Kings 4:1, Proverbs 3:6.
Hosea 2:21
In that day, I will answer,” says the Lord. “I will answer the sky as it pleads for clouds. And the sky will answer the earth with rain.
A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
2 Kings 4:1
The company of the prophets at Bethel came out to Elisha and asked, “Do you know that the LORD is going to take your master from you today?” “Yes, I know,” Elisha replied, “so be quiet.”
Proverbs 3:6
“Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take.”
Sidewalks Chalk 
dear lord
Eternal God,
you made the union of man and woman
a sign of the bond between Christ and his church.
Grant peace and mercy to Julie
who was united in love with Jeff.
May the care and devotion of her life on earth
find a lasting reward in heaven.
Look kindly on her children,
family and friends
as they turn to your compassion and love.
Strengthen their faith and lighten their loss.
on this the anniversary of her husband’s death
I pray, in the name of Jesus Christ
Our Lord and Savoir
amen